Astrologers at astroYogi.com explain what role astrology has to play in a person’s married life. why Kundali matching is important for us?
In Indian society, marriages are expected to last forever. Kundali matchmaking of a prospective bride and groom is the only option to ensure their compatibility. Their horoscopes also have a combined impact on their future and lifestyle for the rest of their lifetimes.
Following are eight main factors commonly used and checked while Kundali matchmaking in the south and north India.
Tara or Dina
Each factor is assigned basic points, which are as follows.
Varna is 1 point, Vashya is 2 points, Dina is 3 points, Yoni is 4 points, Graha Maitri is 5 points, Gana is 6 points, Bhakut is 7 points and Naadi holds the maximum 8 points. The summation of all these points is 36.
Marriages in India society are highly based on the Kundali matching or the horoscope matching. It is considered some of the most important aspect of marriage. Although there are many who don’t believe in such things. Those who believe don’t get their children married without a proper kundali match. Kundalis are matched by the prospective bride and groom to ensure the longevity of their married life. Kundali matching refers to the matching of the birth signs, horoscopes, and the positioning of the planets of the prospective bride and grooms. If these factors don’t match then they don’t tie a knot. Horoscopes indicate the nature, social skills, behavior, preferences of a person. So it is very vital to match these factors because it influences the future life of couples.
In the Hindu religion, there are 8 main factors that are checked while matching horoscopes of bride and groom. The sum total of all these points is 36:-
- Varna 1 point
- Vaishya 2 points
- Tara or Dina 3 points
- Yoni 4 points
- Grah Maitri 5 points
- Gana 6 points
- Bhakut 7 points
- Naadi 8 points
Based on the above-mentioned factors the kundali of two interested boys and girl is matched and the result of the calculation is known as guna matching. If the guna matched properly then marriage is conducted between the two else it is dropped.
Below mentioned are the 7 reasons that state the importance of Kundali in marriages:-
1. Marriage Compatibility:-
The most important reason for matching kundalis before marriage is to check whether there is compatibility. There should be a mutual harmony, prosperity, and understanding between the couples otherwise their married life can become hell. They should be compatible enough to face the ups and downs of life together without any hassle. The 36 Gunas are matched to check the compatibility of the couples. These gunas have different points and each point indicates a different factor of life of a person which influences the life of the other. So it is suggested to match the kundali before marriage. This is an overall compatibility test in which all factors like health, wealth, career, life, etc are taken into consideration.
2. Children Birth:-
Every house is incomplete without children and so is the married life of couples. There is a Nadi guna in every kundali which carries the maximum 8 points. This Nadi guna indicates the possibility of the childbirth or any kind of issues concerning childbirth. There should be no affliction in childbirth in any of the chart. Even if there is a small affliction in ones kundali the other ones kundali should supersede it. This is one of the most important factors which people look while getting married.
3. Financial Situation:-
Financial factor is very important for living a good life and no one wants a miserable and poor life. Poverty will bring the miseries in life and will take the happiness from it. Life is smooth if you have financial stability in life. This is also seen in kundali matching that neither of horoscope posses a bad financial yogas. Every parent wants best for their children so they check this factor to make sure they get a good life.
4. Sexual Compatibility:-
Sexual compatibility is one of the most important aspects of every married relationship. This factor decides the longevity of relationships. Because many marriages break for no other reason but due to lack of desirability for each other and sexual compatibility. It’s not about the sex but it depends on the men and women character value, their willingness to be with each other. So it is important to know if a boy and girl are compatible before marriage through the horoscope matching. All these things can be clear through horoscope matching. For a blissful marriage, it is very important to have physical compatibility.
5. Relationship quotient:-
It is very important to match relationship quotients among couples before they tie a knot with each other. Relationship quotient should be strong to build and sustain any relationship. This relationship quotient is determined from rational and emotional factors that define the sustainability of any relationship. Therefore guna match is taken into consideration while matching kundali to determine a strong relationship quotient. The higher the score of guna matches the better the compatibility between couples. So a minimum of 18 guna should match between kundali of a girl and a boy to get married.
6. Mental Compatibility:-
Kundali match by name is done to determine a person’s behavioral and physical traits. For mental compatibility to match Gan is matched which tells the mental compatibility ratio of both (guy and girl). It determines the compatibility of the behavioral characteristics that describe the connection between two like-minded people. Gan matching is important because it showcases the mind compatibility. This includes mindset, behavior, temper, interest and aptitude match between the two people.
7. Determine Dosha’s :-
The positioning of stars and timing of birth of a child decide his fate. The timing of birth and the position of a star at the time of birth can create certain doshas in a person’s horoscope. Such kind of dosha can lead to problems in married life in later stages. Therefore it should not be neglected. As these doshas can also affect the life of your partner. So kundali is matched to determine such type of doshas and their effect on another person’s life. If there is an adverse effect of any of these doshas, then the marriage is not advisable by astrologers.